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Wednesday, April 26, 2006
this is something that just popped in my head while i was studying.. according to some theorists of the developmental stages, it is during the preschool stage that homosexuality starts to develop, consciously or unconsciously.. and then one of my professors says that its possible for person to be gay and homophobic at the same time. i have nothing against gays, lesbians, or whatnot.. but here's my theory. players are actually gay homophobics. people who couldnt accept their true identity. they deny that deep inside, they are actually gay. so what they do is cheat on their girlfriends/boyfriends, hook up with the species of the opposite sex as much as they can in order to convince themselves that they're not gay. cheating is their way of suppressing their real self-identity and gender. cheating is their ego defense mechanism. but you see, there's really no point in doing that. coz for sure, no matter how good they are at hiding their homosexuality, it will come out at some point. and why hide it anyway? theres nothing wrong being gay. whats wrong is fooling yourself. not accepting who you really are. and worse, if you choose fooling around just to validate that your straight or as a form of pretecting your ego, you'll just end up hurting the person youre in a relationship with. straight or gay.. theres only one word to descirbe these players: LOSERS. again, i have nothing against homosexuality. ps. yen, i tried visiting your site but it says, "bandwidth exceeded.." =( Bone painted the world at 8:00 PM | |
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